home flexibilityApr 9, 20255 min read

Design for Curveballs: How to Build a Home That Handles Life's Left Turns

Philip Jarrell
Philip Jarrell
Founder & Home Design Coach
Design a home that flexes with life. Learn how to plan for transitions, surprises, and evolving needs, without regrets or costly remodels

Ever watched your life do a surprise left turn?

I have, more times than I can count. One day you’re using the guest room for exercise and guitar practice. Then your parents need to move in, and suddenly that same room is doing double-duty as a bedroom, nurse’s station, and quiet escape zone. If your home can’t flex, you’re the one who bends.

That’s why smart home design doesn’t just think about what works now. It quietly prepares for what’s coming, even if you can’t see it yet. It’s like coaching a football team, you don’t just plan for the perfect play, you prepare for when the defense shifts unexpectedly.


The Mindset Shift: Plan like change is certain (because it is)

We tend to design homes for the life we’re living today. That makes sense. But real life has a habit of calling audibles: surprise babies, aging knees, new jobs, adult kids returning, or sudden health changes.

In my own home, I’ve seen this play out multiple times. What started as my home office became a nursery when our family grew, then shifted to a guest room when relatives needed a place to stay during a tough time. Each transition would have been painful if I hadn’t built in flexibility from the start.

Instead of locking your layout into a single life stage, think of your home as a stage crew. It should be ready to roll out a different set anytime the script changes.


Here’s What You Can Do Now

1. Use the “What-If” Test

Ask: If this room had a personality, would it be cool under pressure?

What happens if:

  • You suddenly work from home?
  • A baby shows up (planned or not)?
  • Your college kid comes home for “just a semester”?
  • Your parents need full-time care?

Walk through these what-ifs. You’ll start to see whether your current layout can roll with the punches, or if it’s stuck in one mode.

When I designed my current home, I ran this test on every room. That’s why our guest room has an extra-deep closet that could hold a desk, and why I installed ethernet ports in every bedroom. When the pandemic hit and we both needed home offices, those decisions paid off big time.

2. Make Room for Change Without Major Renovation

Use modular furnitureFurniture that can change form or function, like a sleeper sofa or stackable storage cubes and flexible lighting. Even built-ins can be designed with future use in mind. That bookshelf today could be a closet tomorrow with a door swap and a few shelves removed.

In my living room, we chose furniture that can be reconfigured in multiple ways. When we host movie nights, it forms a cozy U-shape. When we have friends over, it splits into separate seating areas. It’s like having multiple furniture pieces for the price of one.

3. Add More Outlets Than You Think You Need

You will never regret this. I put outlets in closets, yes, even the tiny ones. They’ve powered everything from vacuums to printers to an emergency bottle warmer. When life shifts, little conveniences like these become lifesavers.

This is one of the best decisions I’ve made in the house. When we needed a second office space, I could repurpose a closet with an outlet, instead of starting a renovation. The outlet in the closet has powered everything I needed. I have to say, I love my closet office. When I am done, I just close the doors. Work is out of sight and out of mind. Easy peasy!

4. Keep Floor Plans Open and Adaptable

Don’t wall yourself in. If a room can serve two purposes with the right furniture or layout tweaks, you’ve just saved yourself thousands in future renovations.

My dining room doubles as a homework zone because I planned for both functions from the start. The buffet has drawers that hold school supplies, and I installed extra lighting that can switch from dinner-party mood to homework-time brightness.


Wrap-Up: Build with tomorrow in mind, even if you don’t know what it looks like

You don’t need a time machine to future-proof your home. Just a little foresight and the willingness to ask, “What if?” when you design.

The truth is, your house should work with you, not against you. Life’s going to change. That’s a given. But the families who plan for change? They don’t just survive it, they handle it with calm, comfort, and maybe even a little style.

Need help thinking through those “what ifs”? That’s exactly what I do at HouseChalk.
I help people design and build homes that can handle life’s curveballs without the regrets. Whether you’re remodeling a single space or planning your forever home, I’ll help you make smart, flexible choices from the start.

If you’re ready to plan ahead with confidence, reach out or join the HouseChalk community. You don’t have to figure it all out alone.

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Philip Jarrell

Philip Jarrell

I'm Philip, a software engineering dad who coaches homeowners through building and renovation projects. I share practical, real-world advice to help you create adaptable, regret-free spaces.

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